ES2007S has improved my life in various aspects. =) Fundamentally, I have learnt the importance of two-way communication for efficient exchange of ideas. In other words, communicating effectively is not only about speaking coherently; it is also about listening attentively. These would lead to more meaningful interactions. Listening attentively is not completed without the understanding of others’ thoughts. Therefore, being open to ideas and criticism is part and parcel of effective communication. This module allows me to apply these skills in real-life situations during lesson and project meetings.
Specifically, the interactions with Brad and peers have helped in honing my ability to articulate my thoughts. Moreover, writing is more manageable and enjoyable than it used to be. In the past, I was very intimidated by people who are able to converse in English very well. Although it is still a fact that my command of English is not strong, I am now no longer so insecure about my communication skills anymore. With the higher self-assurance in my communication skills, I am a much confident person now.
In addition, my personal values, character and traits were explored in the interesting session of discovering self for job search. In the past, due to the indecisive and dependent nature of my character, I often looked upon others’ desires as guidelines for my own wants. However, I am now much aware of my own set of goals and priorities. I am now more able to visualize myself as a unique individual. This is further emphasized by the requirement to write my personal statement.
Our project group has came up with the proposal on the implementation of compulsory Web of Science and Endnote learning for first year science undergraduates. NUS Science Library and the Centre for Development of Teaching & Learning have shown great interest in our research and ideas. We were even requested to get back to them upon completion of our project. I am very glad that our ideas are being acknowledged.
Peer teachings, presentations, surveys and interviews, blog posts, proposal and etc. These are all my “babies” that I am proud to say I have put in great efforts! The learning experience from ES2007S is really very fruitful and this blog post is just a small summary of it. “To be a better person, I have to gain more self-confidence especially in the area of effective communication. This would definitely make me feel more satisfied and happy in life. =)” (Quoted from my first blog post.) I am really very contented that my ultimate objective is well-accomplished!
It is really a great pleasure knowing everyone! Thanks for all the feedbacks and suggestions given by Brad and the class! ES2007S is a module that cannot be missed! =)
Sunday, November 15, 2009
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Hi Rebecca,
ReplyDeleteYour blog brought up something which I thought was really important and that was: being open to ideas and criticism is part and parcel of effective communication.
I used to be guilty of being totally unreceptive to ideas and criticism especially personal criticism. I would turn pretty aggressive and come up with all sorts of reasons to justify my behaviour. This has resulted in me getting into frequent arguments with my family especially, my mother. However, now I can say I have changed for the better after taking this course. I will take a deep breath and pause for five minutes before responding to any criticism. That has helped me to reduce the aggressiveness in my tone and calm myself down.
In all, thank you for sharing and for enriching my learning experience for ES2007s!
Hi Rebecca,
ReplyDeletethe idea for your proposal is great! Congrats!
I agree that besides listening actively, effective communication is not established if without the understanding of the speaker's thoughts. I feel that the one speaking also plays an important role.
I was also easily intimidated by people who have good command of English. I tend to stammer whenever I spoke to them. However, after taking this module, I regain confidence and am able to speak more fluently when I speak to these people.
Thank you for this post, Rebecca. It really shows how much you have benefited from this module.
See you on the 3rd!
Regards,
Kesleen
Thanks, Rebecca, for another fine post, one that comprehensively reviews many aspects of our course. Like Xiu Ling, I appreciate your
ReplyDeletestatement "being open to ideas and criticism is part and parcel of effective communication." That is truly a pearl of wisdom, one that all of us can benefit from keeping in mind.
I agree with Kesleen, too, that the project you and your group did was very relevant. It's testament to your creativity and hard work that the library and CDTL are interested in your proposal. That's what really excites me about this term and the projects completed---so practical. Yes, your "babies" were truly well developed. I really appreciate your effort with each of those, and I'm certain they will serve you well.
Best wishes for your future, Rebecca! Keep smiling!
To Xiu Ling: Happy to hear that you are more receptive to criticism after the course. =)It is not easy to have a change in perception regarding one own's character, but you did it! =)
ReplyDeleteTo Kesleen: You have benefited lots from the course too! See you soon! =)
To Brad: You helped in refining our directions for the proposal! Thank you, Brad! =)
Hi Rebecca,
ReplyDeleteIt has been a fantastic experience and honour for me to be your teammate in our group project. We had come a long way though this semester especially during our project where there were occasions when I had to "MIA" for exams. You have did a fantastic job holding our fort all these while.
Three cheers to you and all the best for your final year project
Patrick :)